And the more you have done to express your commitment, and the more public you have made your commitment, the more resistant you are to changing your mind about it.
For example, in one experiment, researchers went around in a neighborhood and asked people if they would be willing to put a three-inch square sign in their window that said "Be a safe driver."
Two weeks later a different volunteer went through the same neighborhood and asked for something outrageous: "Would you be willing to put a billboard on your lawn supporting driver safety?"
Those who had earlier agreed to the little sign were much more likely to say yes to the billboard than people who had refused the little sign. And almost everyone who they asked to put the billboard on their front lawn who had not been asked to display the little sign refused.
In other words, once someone committed themselves a little bit to the cause by putting the little sign in their window, they were more committed to the cause. They were more willing to do something significant about it. This is the principle of commitment and consistency.
The author, Robert Cialdini, defined the principle this way:
It is, quite simply, our nearly obsessive desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done. Once we have made a choice or taken a stand, we will encounter personal and interpersonal pressures to behave consistently with that commitment. Those pressures will cause us to respond in ways that justify our earlier decision.
So when you can get someone to sign a petition to stop Saudis from teaching hatred in American schools or to protect women from oppression by Islamic supremacism, the person who signs it commits herself a little to the cause.
Signing a petition is a small act. It only takes a few moments. But the act makes a person more committed to the cause in general. She or he may begin to think of herself or himself as an advocate for the cause. The petition signer will be more likely to commit to something bigger for the cause in the future when an opportunity arises.
Citizen Warrior is the author of the book, Getting Through: How to Talk to Non-Muslims About the Disturbing Nature of Islam and also writes for Inquiry Into Islam, History is Fascinating, and Foundation for Coexistence. Subscribe to Citizen Warrior updates here. You can send an email to CW here.
As for sharia law , on a back issue of actforamerica.org newsletter entitled "Sharia's encroachment in our courts" the article informs the reader "Increasingly U.S. courts have yielded to Sharia, our judicial system is failing to adhere to the very beliefs on which this country was founded. Sharia advocates are overturning our long-held legal traditions to follow precepts laid down by a faith that represents less then one percent of our population and whose beliefs are at odds with U.S. legal and spiritual history. American law reflects Judo-Christian values and traditions." Which "is now being threatened ,as sharia has encroached into American the system, and Muslim advocacy groups have increased pressure to institute sharia." About Sharia law the article further reads "This immutable Islamic legal doctrine derives from the Quran and other sacred Islamic texts, interpretations and rulings. it mandates gender apartheid, religious discrimination. Muslim supremacy ,cruel punishments and denial of free speech and religion...the treatment of non-Muslims to proper wife-beating techniques....Islamic doctrine recognizes men as superior to women in matters of civil arbitration and thus promotes the unequal of women." near the end of the article is also explains to the readers that "Sharia is at odds with everything enshrined in our constitution to honor and preserve individual liberties and freedom."
ReplyDeleteThis is called:
ReplyDelete1. Building Habits and
2. Gradualism
The experience gradually becomes a Habit that is unbreakable.
As for getting through to other people who are not Muslims about the many dangers and problems of Islam might be and is a very difficult thing to do.
ReplyDeleteFor the Arab scholar on Islam ,Brigitte Gabriel who used to live in the Middle Eastern nation of Lebanon and received first hand experience of the horrors ofthe Islamic terrorism of Hezbollah , but who now is American citizen likewise lives in America had written in her first book BECAUSE THEY HATE she about Westerners "The West is ignorant and refuses to learn."
That's sadly ,many times,just how it is .For in a good number of occasions different ,follow,Americans I tried to talk to about Muslim terrorism have said to me "I don't have time to read or go to hear a public lecture about Islamic terrorism,"
Nevertheless many of those same people fine time to watch sports on television for hours and even travel a neighboring State to sit in the stands and watch a baseball ot football game.
Not only it difficult to "get though" to any Westerner about the importance of being informed and active about the dangers of Islam and Islam's jihad but it's much more difficult and somethings impossible to use reason and logic to a Muslim about the many errors and contradictions the Qu'ran '
ReplyDeleteThe more is Muslim is committed to Islam the more impossible it is to use logic with that person. A very devout Muslim will not respond to reason.
This tragic closed Muslim mindset is a reflection of wisdom that was printed by Benjamin Franklin in his periodical POOR RICHARD"S ALMANAC which reads "The way to see by faith is to shut the door of reason."